Where Have You Been?

3 Jan

Hey!  Remember me?   Yeah, I feel like a lousy blogger.   Where have I been?   Well, glad you asked!

We enjoyed an unseasonably warm Fall season here in Dallas (well, if you call that Fall…) and took advantage of so many adventures in our new city.  Check out a few of our highlights:

Opening of Klyde Warren Park

Football Season

State Fair of Texas

Celebrated our 31st Birthdays

We also spent lots of time with family, including trips to Williamsburg, VA to Thanksgiving and Durango, CO for Christmas.

Turkey Day

A White Christmas in the Mountains!

But the real reason for my absence may have been given away in the picture above.  In case you need an additional hint, our world has been rocked by something about the size of a sweet potato (according to today’s measurements).

That’s right, folks, WE’RE HAVING A BABY!!!!

(this pic was almost 6 weeks ago…)

Is that an excuse not to blog?  Not really.  In fact, I wanted to shout it from the rooftops and write about it everyday.  If only I had the energy.  And if only I had been ready to share the news publicly.   It was the only thing I could think of to write, but didn’t want to spill the beans just yet.

We are now at almost 18 weeks, with the baby due June 10th.   We hope to find out the sex of the baby in just a few short (read: excruciatingly long) weeks.

We are beyond thrilled, over the moon, and more than a little freaked out by what’s about to hit us.

So I promise I won’t turn this into a baby or mommy blog (though I’m having fun reading other blogs like that).  You’ll still see posts on Dallas, food, fitness, and sometimes baby.

Thanks for your all patience, support and love!

Until next time… and promise it won’t be almost 3 months away.

Dallas Be Jammin… with Les Mills BODYJAM!

15 Oct

I think we’ve all established that I’m a fitness freak.   I love group fitness.  Love teaching it, love doing it, love all of it!   And while I believe any form of group ex that gets people moving and having fun while doing it is awesome, my loyalties lie with world-class programs developed by Les Mills (www.lesmills.com).  I am certified in 5 different programs, but above all, my first love is BODYJAM.  What is it?  BODYJAM is a cardio-based workout where you are free to get lost in the sensation of dance (for more, check out http://w3.lesmills.com/southcentral/en/classes/bodyjam/about-bodyjam/).

For many gym populations, BODYJAM is considered a “niche” program.   The folks that take Jam are some of the most fiercely loyal participants that I know.   They travel to multiple gyms, even belong to multiple gym chains, just to get their fix.   But many folks are intimidated to give it a try.  ”I’m  not coordinated!   I can’t move my body like that!”

Well, you can.   And you must.

Coming from a strong background in dance, BODYJAM came very naturally to me.   It’s not that way for everyone, and I understand.   But with an open mind, a strong instructor and the willingness to give it a few tries, you will undergo a transformation into a dancing, Jam-addicted machine.

A few key things separate Jam from other pre-choreographed dance programs:

* Well-trained (and super funky)  instructors who cue you how to perform the moves, and maintain a face to face connection with you.

* The most incredible selection of music that’s cutting edge, well-mixed and varies in every class (House, Latin, Hip-hop, Dubstep, Pop, you name it).

* Each class is a well-crafted journey, not just a collection of tracks.  Think of it as listening to an entire album, as opposed to downloading singles off iTunes.

* Repetitive choreography that builds during each class into a full routine.   With enough time dedicated to learning the moves, you are free to “get lost” in the moves and music and reach that natural high that is often only found in concerts, clubs, etc.

I say it to all my classes, but I truly mean it.  BODYJAM is THE most fun you will ever have working out.  In fact, it’s so fun you will forget you’re working out at all!

So why the “ode to BODYJAM” post?   Because there’s big things on the horizon, and I want YOU to be apart of it and spread the word.  Over the past few years, this program has become more accessible, easier to learn, and trending more and more to an epic fusion of music and dance.

I’ve been teaching BODYJAM for Gold’s Gyms for over 6 years now.   And now, Jam is spreading its wings, and it’s coming to its first 24 HR Fitness club, here in Dallas!   With opportunities to expand to other clubs across the country, I need my Dallas-folk to jump on the bandwagon now.   Come experience this program and show 24 HR that it needs to be launched across the country!

BODYJAM is coming to 24 HR Fitness – Irving SPORT, starting THIS FRIDAY!   We’ll be “soft-launching” the program for the next 3 weeks, and preparing a HUGE official program launch on November 6.   We get started This Friday, October 19 from 6:30 – 7:30pm. FREE & open to ALL!   Anyone can come, so bring a friend and get your Friday night started right!  I’ll keep promoting these free classes on Facebook, but put it on your calendar and get there!

http://www.24hourfitness.com/FindClubDetail.do?clubid=00344&sessionId=

A Change Will Do You Good

10 Oct

Hi everyone!  So typically I like to have a theme or some sense of structure to my blog posts.  And I generally I like for them to fall into the categories of Dallas, food, fitness or other passions/interests of mine.   But today I’m going stream of consciousnesses… I make no promises as to the quality of what you’re about to read!

Why the rabble?   I’m just not feeling overly inspired by one thing or another, and let’s face it, I have a lot of things on my mind all competing for attention!   Both my hubs and I are in the throws of a lot of change – professionally, personally, you name it.   One of us (ahem… Kevin), isn’t exactly a fan of change.  He waxes nostalgic and tends to be very steadfast in his routine.

Me, on the other hand, I’m usually all over change.  In fact, I seek it out.  I’m always looking for the next big thing.  The next challenge.  Ways to evolve and improve myself.  And sometimes I don’t fully think through things before I raise my hand and say “I’m your girl for that!”

What does all this mean?  Well it means we are a good team and have a wonderful partnership for our ability to challenge, support and look out for each other.   But it also means that we are able to help each other with conflicting / complementary perspectives when change doesn’t turn out to be what you thought it was.  No matter how long or short you spend thinking about a decision, you can’t predict the outcome.  Neither of us ever says “I told you so” or “I knew that would happen.”  Just, “well that didn’t turn out how we thought” and “how can we make the best of this situation?”

Now if only we could take back the wrinkles gained, hair lost, and brainpower wasted on worry, stress and other unnecessary hangups that came along with these decisions and their aftermath.

One decision I know I won’t regret has been our move to Dallas.   I’ve never felt more at ease, at home and a part of something that feels authentic to who I am.  We’re at the stage of our lives where lots of things will continue to change, but knowing that we have each other and a wonderful home is a great foundation to build on.

Do we miss friends?  Yes.    Do we wish we could be near both sets of families?  Yes.   Do we miss DC traffic?  No.   But ultimately, our friends will be our friends wherever we are.  And family transcends miles apart.

As we head forth into more changes ahead, this quote really resonates with me:  “Fear, uncertainty and discomfort are your compasses toward growth.”  FUN!

We’ve had LOTS of friends going through major changes lately: new jobs, new cities, new houses, new pregnancies, new babies, new marriages!  As we all wish each other well, we really mean it.  GOOD LUCK TO YOU!  ;)

My final takeaways: Change isn’t always fun.  It’s a process, and everyone has an opinion.   But having a good attitude and a loving network of people supporting you makes anything possible.

Big things on the horizon, folks!  Bring em on!   :)

No Rainy Day Blues Here

29 Sep

So we had the best of intentions for today.  This Saturday we were looking forward to a quintessential annual Dallas event: Tailgating and Football with some of Dallas AND Fort Worth’s finest at the TCU v. SMU game.  I had visions of warm weather, barbecue, cold beverages, tents, fight songs and lots of beautiful people dressed in purple and red.   Me, I would have been sporting purple — GO FROGS!   I grew up a Horned Frog fan and still continue to represent even though I’m now a Dallas resident.

Instead, I’m sitting alone on my couch (Kevin got called into the office early and has been there since 10:30).  I’m still in my yoga clothes from this morning, no makeup, alternating catching up with my DVR and practicing my latest Les Mills new releases.   All while listening to the rain fall outside our big bay window.

And you know what?   I’m REALLY enjoying it!   Those of you who know me well know that I am by all accounts an extrovert.   Outgoing, talkative and enjoy beings surrounded by others.   But like many others, I need my alone time.  Down time.  Time to just decompress.  And also time to reflect.

My current reflection: I’m one damn lucky girl.   I live a pretty charmed life.  I have 2 great jobs, one that has challenged me and pays the bills, and one that I am super passionate about (I get paid to workout and inspire others (Awesome.)  I have an amazing husband who is my best friend.  We live in a beautiful townhouse in a city that I love.  I have an amazing and supportive family.  My network of friends is far-reaching and wonderfully enriching.  I have a closet full of Lululemon clothes!   HAHA… okay maybe I should stop now.   God is Good.

I’ve digressed enough.  Anyways, I look forward to Kevin coming home so we can head out and join the masses somewhere tonight, but meanwhile there are no rainy day blues here.   Weather often affects people’s moods, but don’t let it make you feel tired, depressed and lethargic.  Take advantage when you can and spend a little time focusing on you, indulging in what brings you joy, what renews you, and makes you just YOU.   :)

Happy Saturday Folks!

So Good It’s B.A.D. (aka Eating our Way through Bishop Arts District)

10 Sep

We’ve ventured over to Dallas’ Bishop Arts District, located in Oak Cliff, more than a few times now since moving here.  As much as we enjoy living in Uptown, sometimes we need a break from the pre-manufactured “cool” of the neighborhood and just crave a more laid-back vibe that’s still vibrant.   We’ve found this in Bishop Arts.  Sure, it’s bordered by some pretty sketchy areas, but this gem of an neighborhood is definitely worth visiting.   It kind of has a Sixth Street/Austin feel, where the stores and restaurants are all independently owned and the offerings are equal parts eclectic and charming.

While I can honestly say I haven’t done much shopping in the area yet, I’ve definitely checked out the foodie scene!  And it’s a little slice of heaven, with something for everyone.   We had authentic Texas BBQ at Lockart’s Smokehouse, super thin crust pizza (and great beer selection) at Eno’s Pizza, and more.  Our favorite find to date is Hattie’s (www.hatties.com), which they describe as an American bistro with southern low-country influence.   We’ve been there twice — once for dinner and once for lunch (on Labor Day).  Our preference was definitely the lunch scene and menu (not posted on their website, but linked here: http://www.zagat.com/r/hatties-dallas/menu.

The food is phenomenal, and the rare place where I literally want to try everything on the menu.  But what I really love is the space itself.   Its bright, airy Charleston-esque atmosphere is perfect for a date, brunch with friends, dinner with the parents or ladies who lunch.  Gorgeous fresh flowers and charming furniture and place settings would make Ina Garten proud.  The drinks are also excellent!

Hatties

Next stop on the list will hopefully be Bolsa for a nice night out, or Oddfellows for a boozy Sunday Funday brunch!

So next time you’re looking for something a bit different, get out of Uptown, Highland Park, Galleria and the burbs, etc and venture down to Bishop Arts.

Dallas Yoga Throwdown

9 Sep

So I’ve made it no secret that I’m on a big yoga kick these days.   Given my background in dance and fitness, yoga is something that comes naturally.   I’ve been practicing yoga sporadically and informally for about 8 years, taking classes at the gym and teaching Les Mills BODYFLOW, which is a fusion of yoga, tai chi and pilates that builds strength, balance and flexibility.  In the 6 months leading up to my wedding I started taking Bikram Yoga and LOVED IT.   It really helped me obtain the physical goals that I wanted for my wedding (in fact I lost so much weight… a lot of it water weight… that I had to have my dress altered significantly right before the wedding).  And then I stopped.   Cold turkey.  Got out of the habit, hot weather set in, and I was feeling turned off by the cost and time commitment of practicing the same thing 3-5 times a week for 90 minutes.

Then I moved to Dallas.   I’ve mentioned before that I live one block from an amazing yoga studio called Uptown Yoga (www.uptownyoga.com).   When I first moved in I immediately noticed lots of folks just like me walking around with yoga mats and decked out in Lululemon (I have an addiction people — let’s move on).  I knew I had to give it a try and I was hooked.   I’d never really experienced a Vinyasa Flow practice in this setting: a beautiful airy studio with exposed brick and beams and lots of light.  Fantastic friendly instructors and a real sense of community.   I’ve been taking classes at Uptown usually 3 times a week, and Kevin has also taken a huge interest in yoga as well.  We practice together at least once a week and it’s one of my favorite things to do together.

So why was I itching recently to get back into Bikram yoga?   No idea really.   It’s hot as hell outside.   I’ve become accustomed to enjoying variety in class with a soundtrack of music.   I like wearing pants to class.

Let’s contrast Bikram.   105 degree room.  No music.  Same series (26 postures, performed twice, and 2 breathing exercises) every time.  Wearing as little clothing as possible, no pants allowed (we wear shorts people — very very short ones — get your mind out of the gutter).

Considering everything I love about Vinyasa Flow, the idea of Bikram hasn’t been all that appealing.   But I wanted to sweat.   I wanted to be forced into brutal honestly with my body.  I wanted to lose a few pounds.   So I gave it a go again, this time at Bikram Yoga Dallas (www.yogadallas.com).

My first class back after 16 months was awful.  Terrible.   I was miserable and spent the whole class dizzy, nauseated and felt like my heart might explode.   I sat out several postures and couldn’t wait for it to end.   I felt defeated.   And then I resolved to go back the very next day.

That is the key to Bikram — each practice builds on the one before it.  And the more often you practice, the better.  There will be good days and bad days.   So much of it is mental toughness and commitment.   So I went back.   And it sucked.  Again.   I decided to seek out the instructor after class to find out what might be the problem and explained how I had just re-started my practice.  One word stuck out in his response:  EGO.   (Boom!)   Remember my post “Working Out Your Ego?”   Yep.    A lightbulb went off.   I have made huge strides in enjoying my Vinyasa practice with no agenda, no competitive drive, just accepting each class as it is and it’s been amazing.   But with Bikram, I was pushing myself so hard in every pose, picking up where I left off last April 2011 and expecting the same results.   This was clearly not practical and I knew he was right.

So I decided to take a day off, go to Uptown with Kevin (had an AMAZING class), and then went back to Bikram this morning.   What a difference!   I told myself to just relax.   Focus on backing off on the poses a bit to pace myself.   And I ended up getting deeper into many of them than normal.   I didn’t have to sit out any postures.   My heart didn’t feel like it was about to beat out of my chest.  And I felt amazing when class was over.

So… will I keep it up?   I’m dedicated to a consistent Bikram practice for the rest of this month.   But can I balance 3-5 Bikram classes, my 3-4 Vinyasa classes, and teaching my regular Gold’s classes?  Heck no.   I’d have to say I enjoy Vinyasa practice a lot more and I’ll probably stick with it long-term, whereas I see more short-term results with Bikram.  Time will tell.

So here’s my rundown on the 2 studios, “Watering Hole Wednesday” style:

Studio:  Uptown Yoga

Cost: Drop-in $15.  Monthly unlimited if you auto-pay is $108/month.

Beginners:  $10 for 10 days is the promotion for first timers who live in the area.  They also have classes twice a week strictly for beginners.

Feel/Ambiance: As stated earlier, the studio is warm and inviting, with exposed brick walls and just a few mirrors for those who chose to place their mat in front of them.  Instructors chose their own music which varies from ambient to Top 40.   A little for everyone.   The lighting is soft, you feel a bit like you’re outdoors.

Heat: The room is set to 85 degrees.  Moderate humidity.   Warm enough to sweat and get deeply into postures but not so bad that you could wring out your clothes afterwards.

Frequency of classes and Instructors: 6 classes a day on weekdays and 4 on weekends.   60 minutes each.   You can see who is teaching online, and they hold pretty regular schedules, always announcing online when there is a sub.

Attire and Accessories:  Lots of Lululemon (I fit right in).   Participants are encouraged to wear fitted clothing and dress “modestly.”   Mostly capris and tanks.   Most folks bring their own mat and lots use yoga towels (I don’t, but I have Lululemon’s The Mat, which is amazing and you don’t slip.).   Mats are always available to borrow for class and they sell a wide selection of yoga towels and clothing.

Location:  3 locations.  Uptown, Lakewood and The Colony.  I’ve only been to the Uptown location, but it’s clearly UBER convenient for me.

Attendees: At the Uptown location it’s mostly young professionals like me.   Skews pretty young and hot.  But definitely not intimidating.   An impressive ratio of women to men (I’d call is 60:40).   I love seeing so many men practicing yoga, and they are among some of the most dedicated.

Studio: Bikram Yoga Dallas

Cost: Drop in for $20.  Monthly unlimited if you auto-pay (3 month commitment) is $99.

Beginners:  Promotion is $49 for monthly unlimited your first month.  Every class is considered a beginners series.  They also have a monthly workshop for beginners only with Q&A.

Feel/Ambiance:  Apparently the studio is recently renovated.  It’s located on the second floor of a Tom Thumb anchored shopping center.  But you would never know it from the inside.   Lots of natural light, feels very open and loft/industrial style.   The room is quite large.   Classes are held with the lights on and they are quite bright.  It’s part of Bikram’s practice.   Be honest with what you see in the mirror.   Mirrors are on 2 full walls.   You have to focus on yourself — Bikram says you are your best teacher.  Outside the studio is lots of concrete and hard surfaces… usually dripping with sweat!  No music.   Just the rhythmic set of  instructions being spouted out by the instructor.

Heat:  Minimum 105 degrees.   50-60% humidity.   Hot as Hades, no lie.   You will lose a few pounds in water weight each class (don’t worry… it come back.  :/ )

Frequency of classes and instructors: 5-7 classes per day, 90 minutes each.   As far as I can tell, they don’t post who’s teaching what classes.  Since I’ve only been a few times, not sure if instructors hold permanent/regular time slots, but I recall from other Bikram studios that they like to rotate the schedule pretty often.  Not sure how I feel about this.  As an instructor, I know that preferences for certain instructors really drives attendance and keeps people coming back.

Attire and Accessories:  Wear as little as possible.   Booty shorts, tiny sports bras.  No shirts for men.  Breathable fabrics.   You have to expose it all, for practical reasons (it’s too damn hot) and to allow your body to grip skin to skin.   No one is checking you out.   It’s pretty benign for all the skin that’s showing.   You can rent mats and towels.  Most people bring their own.  A yoga towel or big bath/beach towel is a must to go over your mat.   And it will be drenched.  Water or other hydrating beverages (coconut water, Gatorade, etc) are also required accessories and are available for purchase.

Locations: Currently just one, at Mockingbird and Abrams near SMU.  But they are planning another location in the West Village part of Uptown for this Fall.   That would definitely be more convenient!

Attendees: A little bit of everything.   Newbies, hard core yogis.  Young, middle age.  Fit and de-conditioned.   Men and women.  Yoga is for everyone here.

That’s my quick rundown.   As my old teacher in Arlington used to say, All Yoga is Good Yoga.   Just find what works for you!

Any Given Sunday

5 Sep

And so it begins… NFL Football kicks off tonight!   I know my friends, family and readers run the gamut from hard-core fans to couldn’t care less/what ELSE is on TV types.  But I fall into the former category.  Case in point: we decided to get Direct TV in our new place solely because we wanted the subscribe to NFL Ticket, guaranteeing we would never miss a game that we wanted to see this season.   As a family (all 2 of us!), we are big Baltimore Ravens fans.  Why?   1) They’re my favorite team to watch, given their high level of play both offensively and especially defensively.   When you score as many points on defense as you do on offense, it makes games less boring to watch.   2) Baltimore is a cool town that we love to visit.   We have gone to a game each season, and last year had a priceless encounter with Ray Lewis in the hotel elevator.   3) Redskins are awful.   Period.

But now that we are out of DC and back in Texas I can once again publicly indulge in my hometown team, the Dallas Cowboys!  Hopefully I can turn Kevin into a Cowboys fan eventually.  I’ll wear him down.  They kick off the season tonight versus the Giants in what is sure to be a great match-up.   I’m sure the Nodding Donkey next door will be off the hook.  Maybe we’ll swing by for a beer.  Though, we did pay for NFL Ticket and all…

Anyways, this post wasn’t supposed to be about football.  It was supposed to be about what’s dominating our TV.  And soon, that will be football.   All day Sunday.   But here’s the thing… Football isn’t the only good thing on Sunday.   In fact, each of our 4 favorite TV dramas air on Sunday evenings.  So unless the Ravens or Cowboys are playing in Sunday Night Football, here’s what else you can catch us watching Any Given Sunday, no matter the season:

1) Breaking Bad.   (Best.  Show.  On.  Television.)

(Airs on AMC) The premise is strange.  High school chemistry teacher finds out he has terminal cancer and fears leaving his pregnant wife and son with Cerebral Palsy with nothing.   He discovers he can produce the most pure form of Crystal Meth on the market, gets into the drug market, turns evil, kills people, deceives everyone.   Literally, he “breaks bad.”   The show just wrapped its mid-season finale of its final season (which wraps up next summer).   If you haven’t seen this show, shame on you.  The writing, directing, acting and production quality is phenomenal.   It is a show that has gotten BETTER every season.   Watch it!

2) Homeland

(Airs on Showtime)  One of the best first seasons of any show I’ve seen.   You never know who to trust in this show.  Just when you think you know who the real “heroes” are, you start to question everything you thought you knew.  Claire Danes is amazing.  Damian Lewis is enigmatic.  Mandy Patinkin is Mandy Patinkin.   The DC-set drama (though mostly shot in Charlotte) is great fun to watch considering the life that Kevin and I just left and the industry in which I work.  Love this show.  It come back Sept. 30… you have 3 weeks to buy the Season 1 DVD or watch on Netflix.  Do it now!

3) Mad Men

(Airs on AMC)  Probably the most well known among these so far, Mad Men has such style, such wonderful attention to detail and some truly amazing characters.  I love the strong women on the show.  Love the fashion.   Love Roger Sterling and his political incorrectness.  Mostly I love Don Draper’s advertising pitches.  And Jon Hamm.   I love me some Jon Hamm.

4) Revenge

(Airs on ABC)  Revenge now moves to the Sunday night slot on ABC.   My DVR is freaking out.   Revenge is campy, soapy, and a bit over-dramatic.  And I LOVE IT.  Smartly acted.  Gorgeous shots in the Hamptons.   Amazing fashion, again.   Definitely a good contender for a drinking game.   This show could have been awful.   Or even “so bad, it’s good.”  But I think it’s downright great.

My favorite aspect of these shows is that BOTH of us love watching them.  It’s like Date Night every Sunday.   There are others that get honorable mention that Kevin doesn’t miss (like The Walking Dead… too many zombie squirt noises for me though…), but we never have to fight over watching any of these 4 shows.

Next up on my list to add to the Netflix queue: The Good Wife.  Also airing on what night?  Oh right… Sunday.  And maybe True Blood.   Sunday again.   And I have the whole season of Newsroom stored on the DVR, for when I get around to it.

And need I mention that most of our favorite shows of the past aired on Sunday as well:  Sex and the City, The Wire, The Sopranos, etc.

Sunday is home to many wonderful activities:   Church.  Brunch.  Sunday Funday at the pool.  FOOTBALL (goes without saying).   My new BODYPUMP class (6:30 p.m. at Gold’s Gym Uptown!!!!).   But I know where you’ll find me Sunday evening.   Glued to the TV.

Anyone else watch all 4 of these shows?  What am I missing?   And HOW do I de-conflict my DVR this fall?

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